Last Saturday, a father left a neighborhood cookout in tears. His sister’s 6-year-old had just explained photosynthesis to his 9-year-old—in front of the entire family. His son couldn’t answer.
Three days ago, a grandmother drove 400 miles to see her grandson. He never looked up from his screen. Not once.
Yesterday, a teacher at a $15,000/year private academy gave her honors students a simple quiz: "Why is the ocean blue but water in a cup is clear?" Twenty-four straight-A students. Not one could explain it.
This morning, an immigrant mother who worked three jobs for seven years so her son could have opportunities watched him waste his sixth hour on YouTube. She called me crying: "I didn’t sacrifice everything for this."
Last week, a parent got a call from their daughter’s teacher: "I’m recommending we hold Emma back. She can’t think critically." The parent has 90 days to prove them wrong.
These parents all asked me the same desperate question:
"What happened to my kid?"
As the former Director of one of the most prestigious private academies in the country, I’ve spent 15 years watching "smart" kids become digital zombies.
And I finally know why it’s happening.